Friday, September 26, 2008

Holier than thou

By Aloysious Mowe, The Nut Graph

LAST Christmas, after a splendid lunch at a hotel in Kuala Lumpur, my nieces posed with their dad for photographs amidst a glittery forest of Christmas trees in the hotel lobby. Earlier that day they had scrambled to yet another tree, in my mother's house, to open the presents that had been piled up under it in anticipation of their arrival.

None of this is remarkable, except for the fact that my brother-in-law is a strictly observant Malay Muslim, and that at lunch my sister was veiled, as are many Muslim women in Malaysia these days.

We didn't pretend, for the sake of my Muslim family's "sensitivities", that Christmas was some kind of jolly secular knees-up. Next to our Christmas tree was set up, as it is every year, a scene made up of carved wooden figures depicting the birth of Jesus in Bethlehem. From the CD player came carols about how he "came down to earth from heaven, who is God and Lord of all", and calls to "come let us adore him, Christ the Lord".

If some people in Malaysia were to have their way, my family would no longer be allowed to celebrate our very Malaysian Christmas. We would be accused of "confusing" my Muslim family, and of being "insensitive" to their faith.


Is Christmas in Malaysia increasingly de-Christian-
ised? (Pic by Arnold Wong, courtesy of Nick Choo)

Mental convolutions

Just before the last election, a group of Muslim non-governmental organisations (NGOs), including the Muslim Youth Movement of Malaysia (Abim) and the Muslim Professionals Forum (MPF), issued a set of demands. The usual suspects were rounded up for condemnation: "pluralism"; "secular-liberal thought"; the Interfaith Commission; the notion that Malaysia is a secular state, etc.

It is a depressing document to have to read, both for its intellectual dishonesty as well as for its being a fairly accurate reflection of public discourse about Islam in Malaysia today.

The mental convolutions it must take to produce such a document would win a gold medal if intellectual bankruptcy were an Olympic sport. It would be clear to a Martian emerging from her (do notional Martians have gender?) ship in Putrajaya that Islam is an all-pervasive and dominant force in this land. Nevertheless, these Muslim NGOs prefer to paint a picture of Muslims here as a community under siege.

They state that all forms of religious and ethnic extremism must be rejected, and in the next line demand that Muslim organisations have a say in approving the building of non-Muslim places of worship in Muslim-majority areas, because the "sensitivities" of the "local community" must be considered.

It is even suggested that the authorities have been too permissive with regards to the building of non-Muslim places of worship, while being very rigid regarding the erecting of mosques. Does any non-Muslim recognise this state of affairs as congruent with reality as we know it?

The NGOs also call for the strengthening of civil society institutions, and the opening up of greater democratic space. At the same time, they call for the restriction of religious terms such as "Allah" to Muslim use only; condemn those who promote individual rights and freedom of religion for Muslims; and warn the Ministry of Education to ignore non-Muslim concerns about the role that Islamic rituals have in national schools.

Hypersensitivity

The Muslim NGOs also lament the fact that four states and the federal territories have yet to introduce legislation forbidding non-Muslims from proselytising among Muslims. By highlighting this, they perhaps inadvertently explode one of the myths about the Constitution, viz. that it forbids such proselytising. In fact, Article 11(4) states only that non-Muslims may be forbidden by state legislation to preach their faith to Muslims. There is nothing in the Constitution that says this must be done.

These NGOs, however, are the same ones who emerge from under a rock every time there is a Muslim apostasy case, with demands that we should respect the "position" of Islam as guaranteed in the Constitution. Their reading of the Constitution is as dishonest as their interpretations of civil society and democratic space.

One of the dominant tropes in the list of demands is the need for non-Muslims to be "sensitive" to Muslim sensibilities. The authorities justified the recent detention of Teresa Kok under the Internal Security Act (ISA) by claiming that she had injured Muslim sensitivities. Whatever the real political calculations (or miscalculations) behind her detention, the mere allegation of injuring Muslim sensitivities was a sufficient condition to orchestrate a campaign against her.


Some Muslims are feeling that the authorities are not building
enough mosques, compared with churches and temples
(© Keran McKenzie / sxc.hu)

It has come to a point where nothing labelled "Muslim" can be questioned or debated by non-Muslims, and even dissenting Muslims, for fear of injuring "Muslim" sensibilities.

To some, given the dominant position of Muslims in Malaysia, this has the ring of a rich man asking a beggar not to bother him with requests for money: the beggar's pleading is "insensitive", as it highlights the disparity between his enormous wealth and the beggar's poverty. The rich man thinks his comfort should not be disturbed, even if the poor man dies at his doorstep.

Walk into any Muslim bookshop in Kuala Lumpur, and you will come across the works of South African writer Ahmad Deedat. They are filled with vitriol against Christian beliefs, and Christian sensitivities do not enter the picture. A Malay politician slanders the Chinese citizenry of this country (and spouts anti-Semitism in the same breath), and gets away with a three-year suspension from his party, while a journalist who reports his hate-speech is detained under the ISA. When it comes to sensitivities in Malaysia, which community is it that truly has a grievance?

The other point of view

It is easy to adopt a condescending tone when approaching the issue of Muslim sensitivities, especially when it is clear that non-Muslim sensitivities are on a regular basis ridden over roughshod. However, I want to take seriously the idea of the Muslim community's sensitivities. I understand why a pious Muslim could be distressed whenever she sees pork being consumed, or when she sees alcohol being sold openly. A Muslim who finds truth and consolation in his faith will certainly be saddened by the apostasy of another Muslim. These are not trivial matters.


Ahmad Deedat (Public domain. Source: Wikipedia.org)

However, these neuralgic points are just as painful for non-Muslims as they are for Muslims. It pains me to see a Catholic convert to Islam only because Malaysian law (against the weight of Islamic tradition) says she must if she marries a Muslim. I am offended by the toxic writings of Ahmad Deedat, in the same way that some Muslims were offended by Salman Rushdie's Satanic Verses or by the Jyllands-Posten cartoons of the Prophet Muhammad. But what is it that causes me not to demand a ban on Ahmad Deedat's books?

I do not believe that those who offend me should as a consequence lose their right to free speech. Racists and bigots should have their opinions challenged and debated: dismissing them from the public sphere simply drives them underground, and who knows then what noxious weed will grow in the dark?

Neither do I think that the world should always pander to all my sensitivities. To have every desire fulfilled, without discernment or accommodation, is to be an infant. We all know the exasperation we feel at friends who are sensitive to the most minor imagined slight, or who are unable to cope with the rough and tumble of relationships. We want to say to them, "Oh, for heaven's sake, just grow up!"

Societies also can be infantilised, and religious societies with strong authoritarian tendencies all the more so. An infantilised religious community is one that will always feel that it is under siege, for it will never have had to take its creeds and practices into the light of reason and charity, those adult qualities so emphasised in the Quran.


Aloysious Mowe, SJ, was born after Merdeka and considers himself Malaysian by birthright and not by anyone's concession. The last time he checked his passport, it says he was born in Malaysia, not Tanah Melayu.

Race & prejudice in Malaysia

Race and prejudice in Malaysia
Sep 26, 08 6:22pm
teh tarikThe TehTarik sessions are the brainchild of a group of young Malaysians at Cambridge University who desired a non-partisan platform to foster open discussion on burning issues. Sessions are open to all as long as they have a shared passion for Malaysia. The following is based on the discussion that took place over a hot cup of self-made teh tarik.

The all-too-familiar tourism advertising gimmicks portray Malaysia as a multi-cultural and pluralistic society, an emerging democracy where people of all cultures, races, and religions live and prosper together; a society where cultural differences are honoured and enduring ideals of humanity can thrive. However, how far do these perceptions differ from the reality of the Malaysian social fabric?

In Malaysia, the third question succeeding name and gender is almost always regarding race. We are identified by our race and the fact is, for better or for worse, the concept has been institutionalised. Though possibly relevant historically, the current generation must ask whether these institutionalised concepts are still appropriate.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

First They Came....

When the Nazis came for the communists,
I remained silent;
I was not a communist.

When they locked up the social democrats,
I remained silent;
I was not a social democrat.

When they came for the trade unionists,
I did not speak out;
I was not a trade unionist.

When they came for the Jews,
I remained silent;
I wasn't a Jew.

When they came for me,
there was no one left to speak out.

It's a poem by Pastor Martin Niemöller (1892–1984)

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Callahan Consultation '08

Dr. Callahan

Richard Li, the translator

Group Discussion

Group Discussion (Marge, Beverly, Millie & Kathryn)

Group Discussion

Group Discussion (Pastor Tseng, Faith & Julie)

Group Discussion (Pastor Bentley)

Group Discussion (Grace, George, Amy & Judy)

Lunch Break (the Tseng sisters)

Friday, September 19, 2008

Meeting Dr. Callahan

I had an opportunity to meet with Dr Callahan yesterday as he prepares for his consultation with our church on revitalization. I guess I can say I met with a superstar :) I was face to face with "the" high power consultant for church growth and revitalization. I even shook his hand, a couple times. :)

Dr. Callahan is actually very down to earth. He does not have the stuck up self centered personality that I expected from a "big shot". He is actually very pleasant, friendly, intelligent and even humorous. Talking to him make me realized that he is actually very good at what he does.

People tell me that we are wasting our time and money getting a high priced consultant to teach us how to grow our church. They lectured me that we do not need another method or another way... We just need to have faith and do what we are supposed to do and our church will grow. I sincerely hope that Dr. Callahan will prove them wrong.

Dr. Callahan does not claim to have a quick fix to take us to the promise land anytime soon. He is helping us with what he knows from his experience. The revitalization is a long term plan, at least a three to five years project. Nobody will dispute that we need wisdom, faith and the Holy spirit to be with us to grow. Nor will anybody dispute that God will lead the way.... but does it occur to us that God has been showing us the way but we just have not realized it or we just have not been listening?

Dr. Callahan casually shared some tips on improving our worship service with us last night that sounded so simple and so straight forward but we could never have thought of it in a million way by ourselves. I think that proved that we need help and Dr. Callahan can help us. We seek help when we are sick or not feeling well. Why can't we seek help if our church has been stagnant for so many years? I think we need to jump out of the tiny well that we have been coop up for so long. It is time for us to humble ourselves and submit ourselves to let Him lead us. We could think of Dr. Callahan as God's messenger sent to show us some pointers and the rest of course is up to us and the Holy Spirit.....

I am so looking forward to hearing him speak this weekend, starting from tonight...

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Before and After Marriage

Before marriage....
He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
She: Do you want me to leave?
He: No! Don't even think about it.
She: Do you love me?
He: Of course! Over and over!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: No! Why are you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Every chance I get.
She: Will you hit me?
He: Are you crazy! I'm not that kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?
He: Yes.
She: Darling!

After marriage....
Simply read from bottom to top.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Twelve Keys to an Effective Church

Our church will begin our consultation with Dr Ken Callahan based on Twelve Keys to an Effective Church this weekend. Dr Callahan is now in town and he is doing his preparation by visiting leaders of the church on Thursday and Friday. Please keep us in your prayers!

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Boyfriend vs Husband

Dear Tech Support,

Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a distinct slow down in overall system performance - particularly in the flower and jewelry applications, which operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0. In addition, Husband 1.0 uninstalled many other valuable programs, such as Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5, and then installed undesirable programs such as NFL 5.0, NBA 3.0. and Golf Clubs 4.1. Conversation 8.0 no longer runs, and Housecleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system. I've tried running Nagging
5.3 to fix these problems, but to no avail. What can I do?

Signed,

Desperate

Dear Desperate:

First keep in mind, Boyfriend 5.0 is an Entertainment Package, while Husband 1.0 is an Operating System. Please enter the command: "http:I Thought You Loved Me.htm" and try to download Tears 6.2 and don't forget to install the Guilt 3.0 update. If that application works as designed, Husband 1.0 should then automatically run the applications Jewelry 2.0 and Flowers 3.5. But remember, overuse of the above application can cause Husband 1.0 to default to Grumpy Silence 2.5, Happy Hour 7.0, or Beer 6.1. Beer 6.1 is a very bad program that will download the Snoring Loudly Beta. Whatever you do, DO NOT install Mother-in-law 1.0 (it runs a virus in the background that will eventually seize control of all your system resources). Also, do not attempt to reinstall the Boyfriend 5.0 program. These are unsupported applications and will crash Husband 1.0.

In summary, Husband 1.0 is a great program, but it does have limited memory and cannot learn new applications quickly. You might consider buying additional software to improve memory and performance. We recommend Hot Food 3.0 and Lingerie 7.7.

Good Luck,

Tech Support

Moon Festival Celebration

This year, the Moon Festival (中秋節) falls on September 14, but to take advantage of the weekend (Saturday), our church celebrated this festive occasion on September 13. Celebrating Moon Festival has become a "semi" traditional celebration in our church. We usually invite everyone from church to our celebration. And this year we did the same, members of both congregations, as well as guests, were invited to come together to celebrate Moon Festival, and we had a blast. (Okay, at least I think we did). If my memory serves me right, this is the third time we celebrated Moon Festival as a church. All in all, I counted more than 80 participants including children.

Celebrating and enjoying aside, a lot of behind the scene preparation and cooking were involved to make this celebration successful. A lot of us, (yes, us and that includes me) just came and enjoyed the good food and great time. We ignored or forgot to express our appreciation to all those that spent countless hours slaving themselves in the kitchen preparing the food for us. I think a big "Thank You!" is in order....

One thing we did this year that is different from previous years is
that we made our own moon cakes. The Grace Fellowship invited an expert to come in on Friday night and taught us on the art of making moon cakes. I heard that they enjoyed the lesson very much and all of them are now expert moon cake makers. :) I think a lot of us regretted not coming to the Friday night meeting because we really missed out on a valuable lesson, and a free one I might add. I think those home made moon cakes came out looking good and tasting great.

Dinner was great. There were a lot of food other than the moon cakes. We had BBQ beef, noodles, and ..... We even had salad for those that are not used to, or don't enjoy Chinese food. We also had three big trays of fruits for desserts.

After dinner, we were entertained. Ben did a great job with the help of his wife, Kathy and daughter, Ashley in introducing Moon Festival to those of us that are
not familiar with the occasion. Ben and Trudy also put together some games for our enjoyment. A lot of people participated while others watched.

I think most of the us are entertained and we enjoyed the fellowship. I think this kind of fellowship really helped in fostering better communication and understanding between different cultures of our great church family. We are looking forward to (at least I am) our next Moon Festival celebration....

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Sunday, September 14, 2008

Outreach Concert


On Wednesday, September 10th, our church co-sponsored with some other Christian organizations an outreach concert featuring Henry Chong and his partner Raymond Looi (張漢林與雷聖雄). The concert was mainly gear for non believers working in the service industry (restaurants). That is why the concert was held from 10:00pm till midnight.

The theme of the concert is "I have God's power". Henry Chong is a very well known gospel singer in South East Asia and he is also a very good old traditional pop song singer. We invited people to come and enjoy the old traditional Chinese pop songs because those people will never come if we invite them to listen to gospel music.

He preached through his music and he is really very good at it. After each song, he shared some gospels through everyday witnesses and he is very effective. This is the second time I hear him. (He also came to our church last year). This time around, I think he is much better in conveying the gospels. I am a believer and a long time Christian and I was touched by his message.

I think a lot of Christian especially those that have been Christian for a very long time does not remember how to spread the gospel and God's love. We tend to feel that church should be for Christian only and we should share and enjoy our Christian life selfishly. The sense of ownership is very strong in this particular case. We also want to make sure that we should only sing Christian songs, actually some believe that only certain Christian songs. We should only do activities that are "holy" and Christian like and all those that are not like us should not be here. I am not advocating we do anything other than being good witnesses to our God. However, we forgot to ask ourselves, how do we spread the gospel? How do we attract non believers to our church? How do we share our love with them and how do we bear witness to God?

I think what Pastor Tseng brings to us for the past year is what we as Christian and what our church as body of Christ should be doing. We should be spreading the gospel. We should make believers out of non believers and not try to ask other Christian to "jump ship" from other churches. We should share our love with our neighbors and be true witness to them.

The outreach concert is one of the events that I truly believe is leading us to the right direction. There are those that say that the pop singers should not be singing in the church, or we should not let people sing pop songs in our church. My question would be: How do we attract non believers to our church or any church? I am sure it will not work by telling them how beautiful and soothing the gospel songs are. They are not interested because they don't know them or they have never heard them other than may be they are boring. I think we have to think outside the box. (I am so impressed with our new District Superintendant when he encouraged us to think outside the box). We have to think how they think. We have to do what they do. We have to accommodate them as long as the gospel is not compromised. We invited them to come to a concert that they want, listen to the songs that they love, be in a church and listen to a message which they may not even know that they are listening. If we can get someone to accept Christ this way, I think all our effort and resources are indeed worth it. Just on the side not, two of them accept Christ during the concert.

Pastor Tseng also initiated some very innovative ideas on spreading the gospels and growing our church. I think we need to support him and work with him. We need to give every idea a try. How would we know they don't work if we do not try? There are some naysayers. I know there are some reservations on his ideas and plans and it is very discouraging for the pastor, especially a new pastor. Change is hard. I know that because I am one of them. I was actually one of the worst. I have always resisted change and I have always been content with the present situation. I think over time, God has finally changed me. I am now looking forward to change. I want to support every effort to change. We have always complaint that nothing is going on at our church and we are just sitting on the sideline for our church to die. I think the opportunity is here, and the time is now. God answered our prayers and He sends us a leader that is not afraid to work hard and is willing to lead us to try different approach. What do we have to lose? If we fail this way, we try another way...... We are in God's hand. We should have some faith....

That is why I am also very supportive of the Callahan consultation proposed by Pastor Bentley. I was very impressed with his book but if you ask me if he can really help us, my answer is "I don't know". But I think if this experience will help us work together (Chinese and English) and there is an opportunity for revitalization, why not? What do we have to lose? I really don't think we have anything to lose other than money.... but then money spent on the possibility of revitalization is money well spent regardless of the outcome....

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